Here are some system details:
Operating System: Windows 10 Pro 64-bit (10.0, Build 16299)
(16299.rs3_release.170928-1534)
Processor: Intel(R) Core(TM)2 Duo CPU T9500 @ 2.60GHz (2 CPUs)
Memory: 6144MB
Page File: 3362MB used, 3804MB available
Oh man, you went whole hog on your computer. For my own T61 laptop, I
only went for the second-fastest CPU (T9300) and I never bought any 4GB
DDR2 SODIMM: just outside of my financial reach.
Recently I snapped and got a T420 instead since DDR3 was so much more
affordable that this just seemed a saner option with regard wanting to
be able to work creating videos reasonably comfortably. Also landed me
with a newer SSD: the SMART values of my old one were getting scary.
I digress.
However, after setting up Dr. MinGW
(https://github.com/jrfonseca/drmingw) as my post-mortem debugger, I
was able to get the following:
lilypond.exe caused an Access Violation at location 00000000004EA392
in module lilypond.exe Reading from location 000000000714E55C.
Registers:
eax=0714e550 ebx=0a24c130 ecx=0a24c130 edx=0a289448 esi=0a247f78
edi=00000002
eip=004ea392 esp=00b0d7ac ebp=07059948 iopl=0 nv up ei pl nz
na po nc
cs=0023 ss=002b ds=002b es=002b fs=0053 gs=002b
efl=00010206
AddrPC Params
004EA392 07154BB0 05975BB0 07142110 lilypond.exe!Grob_info::context
004343D4 00000000 00000000 00000000
lilypond.exe!Beam_collision_engraver::finalize
Some more backtrace might help. But it also needs to be a tangible
problem we can reproduce. Given the lack of ability triggering it on
Linux, I could imagine that a GUB update of the compiler chain might
cause it to disappear.